This book helped me to an extent I can't even express - I was spinning out of control with jealousy issues
This book helped me to an extent I can't even express. I was spinning out of control with jealously issues. Some founded, most not. Reading this gave me the tools I needed to stop and control my jealous thoughts and behaviors. It helped me save my relationship. It's not 100% fixed but it is sure of a heck better than what it was. I plan on reading it for a second time because the information in it is just so dead on. I have been suggesting this to others. I am an older man dating a very hot, intelligent woman and I was struggling with stupid STUPID jealously. THANK YOU!!!!!!
You will not BELIEVE the progress I have made
"Hey Francisco, just an update...
The girl that I was involved with, we're currently talking again and in the process seeing what went wrong and trying to move forward.
You will not BELIEVE the progress I have made in terms of my jealousy and control issues. I can now chill when she is on facebook etc talking to other male friends and not have a care in the world.
She has told me about guys hitting on her and trying to get at her and the old me would get all upset and ask why she was talking to them but now I just casually tease her and leave it alone.
I appreciate the fact that she's open enough to tell me about it. She even goes as far as to ask if I want to see conversations or transcripts! I said nah I'm learning to trust you again so you can keep them.
Then I persist and tell her if I saw her out I would hit on her too. I have a new feeling of confidence and now feel as if I can control my emotions in specific situations instead of feelings like a helpless prisoner to my feelings.
I owe a lot of thanks to you man."
I now virtually laugh when I do feel it!!
"Hey Francisco, How are you doing? - I am overcoming jealousy well with your techniques from speaking with you and the vitalcoaching pages.
I have found it interesting studying the triggers of this emotion and now virtually laugh when I do feel it!! - If I get stuck at any point I will give you a call to learn more wonderful life skills!! :) Many Thanks"
SH - UK
Thanks for the wake-up call!
"Hi Francisco. Thanks for the wake-up call! You managed to encourage me to create a different mindset to tackle my dilemma. Of course, I've consulted my friends and peers but no one really has given me straight answers. Everything in your material is empowering.
Anyway, me and my partner are in good terms these days. Our talks have been nothing but fun and intimate. So far so good. I'm slowly developing my trust. Lately, I've been challenged and I know this won't be the last of it. She told me that she will go out to a club this Saturday with her girlfriends. My reply "Oh that's great. Hope you'll have fun." She said "Thanks. I might try to see you afterwards if you're not busy." And I want to tell you that it is a relief. No tension. No worries.
I know that this is not yet a measure of dealing with my jealousy but I know and I feel that I am on the right track. I just hope that I can hold on to this and eventfully master the game and then...it's a win-win situation for me and my partner.
I will update you on this and again, thanks for being my coach."
P - US
We are really happy together again
"After some pain, I'm glad to say things are now sorted and we are really happy together again. Your e-book (Jealousy - How to deal with it - For men) really helped me to see things from her perspective, and helped me to realize that my ideas were 'old fashioned'
They have been a great help to me
"I have been listening to your jealousy for men series. I wanted to thank you, they have been a great help to me. After many years of being this type of person I am starting to understand what is going on inside me. Again, thank you!"
I watched your videos on jealousy and am finding myself more and more calm
"Hi! - I watched your videos on jealousy and am finding myself more and more calm thanks to your very understandable and logical coaching. I appreciate and thank you for uploading such vital help for guys, like myself, who struggle with this common problem."
It has really helped and I still use it
"Hey, just a quick note to say thank you for your ebook on overcoming jealousy. I had jealousy issues thanks to a past relationship and I was sick of it affecting this one. It has really helped and I still use it."
I can really feel you know what your talking about!!
"I was just watching your videos on jealousy... Just want to say I can really feel you know what your talking about!!"
My hunch is that you impact many lives as you have mine
I am a retired therapist and would like to give my professional congratulations to you about tackling some difficult topics. Because of time restraints I am only able to listen to the mp3's but I must say that you have done a superior job. It is difficult to find solid information about jealousy especially that the lay person can understand. My hunch is that you impact many lives as you have mine
RSF - US
I have power over my mind
"I just wanted to express my gratitude over that last session we had. I've really been studying the notes I've taken and every day I feel more and more emotionally free.
I have power over my mind and feel emancipated from jealous behaviors. There may be times I may wonder what she is doing since we are not talking and I just remember "I can't control what she does" and there is no need to feel this way or get upset and i just feel at peace afterward.
I do believe if you let someone go and they come back to you then it's meant to be, if not then they we're never with you. My mindset right now is that of emotional independence.
If she moves on then I am completely fine with it and I will move on too because I'm a great guy, have a great career ahead, a great job, great friends and have been getting looks and affirmation from other females as well. If she does come back I know we will have a WONDERFUL relationship now that I decided to change the way I think and things are getting BETTER.
Thank you so much Francisco and I WILL be buying more training sessions in the future.
I do love her, but I love myself and will allow her to have space to realize that I made a mistake but I'm not a bad person and whenever she does decide to then she'll have a great, reformed guy waiting for her."
RB - US
This is the first time I have felt that I can actually do something about my jealousies instead of letting them ruin my relationships
"It has been a lot easier to face it, understand it and communicate with my partner since I have had your program. Just being able to scroll a chapter on a heated subject would give me perspective and calm my mind enough to try handling a situation in a better way. I really appreciate the work you are doing! This is the first time I have felt that I can actually do something about my jealousies instead of letting them ruin my relationships."
DF - US
I am FAR FAR better than I was before - many thanks!!!
"I found your program to be very helpful and useful-especially in the area of realizing that jealousy was actually a sign of weakness. My wife and I have talked at length about this area- which I appreciate of her - she says fix this and everything will be great. Both you and her made me realize -rather than her thinking I loved her when expressing jealousy - even distrust - it repelled her and made things worse. While not perfect - I am FAR FAR better than I was before - many thanks!!!"